My mother is 82 years old with serious health problems. She has seizures (it's like she faints) about every two weeks, she has brittle juvenile 1 diabetes and on insulin, her eye sight is about gone, her hearing is really getting bad, she always feels dizzy and unstable, she hurt her back area pulling on my step-father while he was in the nursing home, so her back hurts all the time. She never feels good and she complains all the time about her health to me and to family and friends and strangers. She sits on the couch all the time and complains and dozes off and on. She has a terrible attitude and is so grumpy with me. I've gotten to where I'll snap back at her at times, then I feel bad. My husband and I are so depressed because we have no life, no help, and can't seem to know how to go about getting out of this situation. Mother needs assisted living, nursing home or hired help here. Any suggestions.