My mothers money will be running out in about 3-4 months. She is in a private pay, assisted living facility. The nursing home side is not the best, but afraid moving her to a totally new facility would be too traumatic. She has dementia along with major paranoia. I am going to have to make a decision soon, as the other facility I had in mind is in a different county, and would have to file Medicaid papers there. How do I decide ?