How do my sisters and I deal with our 83-year-old mothers apparent decision to give up despite her health not too bad?
Our mother has been moving between home and nursing home despite fantastic home care situation. She really would be excellent candidate for assisted living as she has mobility issues but is very sharp and otherwise has any other health issues well managed. She cannot afford financially to pay for both her apartment and the nursing home but seems oblivious to that thinking they can "put it on payments. Please help us understand how to deal with this and why she would be acting this way.