Sometimes I feel like the demands of my father-in-law's care take total presidence over our marriage. I feel like I have give my heart and soul to my husband, and his life is completely centered around his father. I hate to sound selfish, but I feel lonely, emotionally neglected and drained, and hopeless. My husband will not hear of placing his father in a nursing home, and I would never ask him to do so. We need balance so badly, and there is no one else in the family who is willing to help with dad. Please help me; I am so lost and out of ideas.