My two sisters and I recently had to put our mother in a nursing home after her blood sugar dipped to 35 one morning. Mom has been battling diabetes for 3 years and recently started insulin shots which we daughters have been taking turns giving her. After this happened with low blood sugar, she was rushed to the hospital and then we decided that we cannot give her the care at home she needed anymore. Mom would refuse to check her own blood sugar and was in denile that she had diabetes. Since checking her into the nursing home, she has become beligerant to us when we come to visit. She will start out crying and sobbing begging for us to take her home and then lately has gotten mad when we show up to visit her which is every day we are taking turns.My two sisters and I are to the point where we cannot take much more of mom's abuse and sobbing every time we visit her. What should we do? How do we handle this without getting upset at mom? We know she is just frustrated and confused because she has to stay in this place and not her comfortable house but how can we help her without going crazy ourselves?