My grandfather (Who has been a dad to me for the last 32 years) has been diagnosed with lung cancer. Possibly in both lungs. He is 89 years old and I am not sure his body is strong enough for any of the treatments. He goes to the surgeon to discuss options on the 27th of this month....I just do NOT know how to handle the thought of losing him.....I am 39 years old and have NEVER lost anyone close to me.....I have been lucky until now and don't know how to cope with the thoughts and the inevitible...He also lives 2 hours away from us which makes things even harder....Please help if you have any advice....THANK YOU!!!!