Our father lives with my twin sister in GA. He has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's and Parkinson's disease. He is 80 years old. He wants to take whatever little money he makes on Social Security and use it for "fun" things and for gift giving. He doesn't want to put any money aside for his future....like to help pay for home health aides. In GA, they don't have many governmental services for poor elders with health problems. He is highly stubborn. My twin is afraid that he will bleed her of her hard earned savings for her own retirement and for her daughter. And I am here in Phila. I am not able to afford to pay for our father's care myself. How do we protect our life savings? He never paid into a Long Term Care policy. He blew all of his money over the years on vacations.