My husband and I have lived with and cared for both my dad through lung cancer(who died in 08) and my mom post-stroke for three years. She recently had a fall in May and is having a lot of trouble getting around. She's been in rehab for a couple of months and is being released in a few weeks. They are suggesting assisted living since my husband and I both work outside the home. I only work part time, but there would be many hours during the day where she would be left alone and unsafe. She is refusing to go- saying she wants to come home. Personally, I just can't do the caregiving anymore, and I've talked to the social workers about this. My mother is a very difficult/needy woman and I know exactly what I'm in for if she comes home.They are taking this into consideration with the referral for assisted living and keep telling mom that I just can't do it, but she doesn't see to care how much stress it will add onto me. My brother also wants her home, but he is never around.Advice?