How can I care for my mother and my husband at the same time and still work?
My Mother whom lives with us, demintia, wheelchair bound and needy for everything in a day , NOW my husband is having major health issues, he has has 4 heart attacks, he has diabetics, and mental health and now they have found a mass in his left kidney and dr. feels strongly this may be advanced kidney cancer, they can NOT do surgery as his right kidney is deformed since birth. I am the only one in the house that works, i do have 3 hours a day 7 days a week to help care for my Mother, still leaves me with a lot of "STUFF" to deal / do with , and possibly very often treatments for my husband. I work at McDonald's ( very low income )
I am at a loss and sooooooooo confused and sad myself and dealing with my own emotions ( i am a cancer survivor myself dx. 9 years ago, and since i have NO insuranceso i don't know where i stand in this myself) and yet i have people telling me everything will be ok , don't worry, Yeah sure easier said than done , We are in prayer list at our churh but any help, thoughts or anything else would be GREATLY appreciated too.
God Bless all