I have been taking care of my Mother for over two years. She had dementia. We took her from her home when my brother wasn't caring properly for her and brought her into ours. Her home is in arrears for $35,000 in back taxes and we can't sell it. Since it is viewed as an asset we can't find nursing home care to be paid by Medicare. My husband just retired and we want to travel. I resent her so much sometimes knowing she can't help it but feel trapped as none of my siblings will help except maybe a month a year if that. I am at a loss for help. Any suggestions?