FIL suffers from dementia, is getting more and more confused, is obsessed with his finances but doesn't remember passwords, even forgets how to operate his computer so he asks their caregiver for help in all things computer and my husband is trying to make them understand that the caregiver has no business 'assisting' him on the computer and should not be privy to financial info. They're very well off and with one click of the mouse, all their money could disappear. But neither will listen. They think we're 'over reacting' and have put their complete trust with this caregiver. Any suggestions?