And that question is...When are you taking me home to be with my mother, she will ask in 100 different ways but it all means the same. My mom, is 91 yrs old, her mother passed 53 yrs back. No matter how I explain she does'nt understand, I know since I'm the caregiver, I'm the one that's suppose to understand .How do I control my anxiety, level down, how do I not lose my patience. I have done everything, taken her out , play with her, keep her busy doing things, walks, you name it, I've tried it. Everyday seems worst than yesterday. I'm taking med. to calm my nerves down, and if I continue, I feel I'm going to be a drug addict. Yes, I have brothers, but there not here to help besides, they don't call or get involved. We live in, Puerto Rico, they live in the USA. HEPL!!!!