I am the primary caregiver for my mother, who was diagnosed with dementia last year. She has progressively gotten worse, she started having accidents so she now wears Depends and will still soil those, she is prone to outbursts, and needs assistance with everything. I am the youngest of my siblings and also the only one with no kids so it seems like everyone expects me to shoulder pretty much all of the caregiving. I am seriously tired of this and am considering placing my mother in assisted living. This has been met with heavy criticism from my mother's siblings, some of whom haven't saw my mother in years. How do I politely tell them where to get off?