How can I care for my disabled parents and sister while still having time for my family?
My name is RHaley, I live in Strasburg, VA. I am sending this on behalf of my Mom, Dad, and sister. All 3 are disabled and live in the same house, my sister is confined to a hospital bed (I pay for my sisters home care), my mom is in a wheel chair unable to walk, stand, or get herself in and out of bed or off the toilet, she is on Medicare. My father recently fell several times, he is retired disabled, he also has Medicare. He fell on Monday and now will not walk because he is saying he can't. They are now in a hardship in there home due to no help. I am married, I have to commute 124 miles a day to my job. I get up at 2:30 am in the morning and I am at work by 4:45 am, I do not get home until 6:00 or 6:30 pm in the evening. I have one friend who is helping them a little but she has a life also. Is there any way that we can get assistance for them???? My father is mad at me because I told him I could not do everything and he said I was just abandoning them. Which I have not, I am just so frustrated because I do not know what to do or who to call. Can someone please help me???