Which is better: Having a parent with Alzheimer's close by or an hour away where she knows no one?

DLN:

As a follow up to your previous thread, I can see you're struggling with making an informed decision about your mom. After consulting all sources, you're afraid the final decision will come back to haunt you. You can ask the same question in different ways, but the answer is inside you. It's one of those "darned if you do and darned if you don't," so take a leap of faith (hope) and hang on to your bloomies.

-- ED

i feel your mom should be with recognized faces if at all possible. you and your sister need to think of her