Mom is 83 - she has not been declared to be incompetent at this point, however, she has made some very poor decisions on her own with her money, but we feel helpless at this point. is it possible that we have some ground or evidence on her with the bad money decisions that would enable us to get some form of control legally or by courts? Are these poor choices enough documentation to prove she is not capable of handling her own money? I'm wondering if my brother and I could speak with her doctor and maybe get his point of view, possibly even his sn off that she is incompetent? Any advice would be very much appreciated. Thanks.