My mom is 63 and relatively physically healthy. Her mind is not all there so she doesn't handle stress and daily stuff like, paying bills, etc well at all. She was diagnosed with degenerative bone disease a few years ago and the doctor has told her it is beyond repair. Most recently she found out she has a torn rotator cuff that causes her considerable pain and she has almost NO mobility in her arm. I've taken her to an Othropedic Surgeon who has suggested that she have surgery to repair it before this too, becomes irreparable. She scheduled the surgery, then 2 hours later said, "Nope...I don't want to do it." She gets in this mind set that she's REALLY old, so why bother with maintenance. Any suggestions on how to deal with this?