My elderly mother could not longer take care of my elderly stepfather (93) who has early stages of Alzheimers.. She put him in a Assisted Living fac. His kids, who hardly ever visited him before, didn't like all the money being paid in the facility, moved him out, to a fac closer to them. They got power of attorney and control his checkbook. My mother is essentially cut off. We fear that they will burn through all his money, then call my mother back and say, the money is gone, you have to use yours to care for him.
Any solution to this?