Oh my god, that woman is nuts! My 61 year old mother is suffering from severe osteoarthritis and is currently bed, chair and wheelchair bound. She has done nothing for herself except shower alone in over a year. I cook 3 meals a day, clean her home, shop, bank, pay bills, clean her potty chair daily, listen to her cry and moan and wish herself dead, watch her take pill after pill and still bad mouth me to my brothers whom live within several miles and do NOTHING. I want to run away. What do I do?