Our Dad was in an abusive relationship. His girlfried of 30 years has a substance abuse problem, she is 78, my Dad is 89. She has stabed him and throws things at him and treats him like crap. So my sibling and I recused him yesterday with the blessings of everyone we taked to from Cops, Pastors, Doctors and the Adult Protection Service to people on the street. Everyone said GET HIM OUT OF THERE! So we did. We took him to lunch to get him away from the house. We have POA and also the health one. Her family tried to convince the cops we were the bad guys and to arest us for kidnap. But the APS said NOPE! Well now my Dad hates us. He has some memory loss and thinks that was a good enought place to live. I don't think he has taken a bath for months. Anyway it was very bad where he was at. Now what the heck do we do. He won't get in the car so my sister can bring him to my house.They live in CA I live in Iowa. We are Freaking out! We can't let him go back. Everyone tells you (Get him out,) but where is the info on how to handle it after you do. They all tell us to stand frim and he will adjust. Please help with any ideas. My sisters and I are just sick.