He says its not incontinence and he gets to the bathroom just fine, but when he gets there, he just misses. I have tried talking to him about it, but he just says "I'll work on it" and nothing changes. He lives with me, but I can't always be there to change him. We have talked about him sitting down instead of standing and he says that should solve it, but then we he goes to the bathroom (even if we just got done talking about it) he still does it. I don't know what to do.