How do I know if my dad is really ill or if he is just manipulating me?
My dad had cardiac cath and all was fine. When I leave my kids with him he feels ill within days. Is he manipulating me or is he ill? The few things he does, he will do them in such slow motion. I can't tell if he is having a hard time with it. He will tell me how much the dogs gave him a fit, or the kids wouldn't calm down. Like he's trying to guilt trip me for working. I call him every morning from work to check on him. He usually isn't awake when I leave in the morning. I'm exhausted doing everything myself and would quit work to take care of him but I'm suporting my kids myself. Don't know what to do