I found another site that was supposed to be for mother in laws. I was elated and thought it would be like this site and be helpful. Most of the posts and answers were from daughter in laws and did not get any advice that was usable.....just a lot of attacks on how I should let go and let my son be totally out of my life because he got married. What am I going to do when I get old and need my son and daughter in law to care for me? THere is constantly a problem with mom, mother in law and now add another source....daughter in law. How does everyone juggle between all these issues?