I've cared from my mom for 4 years now. She has dementia and COPD. My husband, 10 year old son and I moved into her house because she wouldn't leave and she can't care for herself. My husband is now disabled and unable to help, so I have to do everything...it is taking a toll on me, my marriage and my son. I don't think I can keep this up for much longer, but I know my younger sister and old kids are not going to want to put Mom in a home. How do I make them understand! I don't like the idea, but don't see another option.