Sorry to say, but this site has been so depressing for a few days. I thought I'd ask an average, everyday question....to make us all feel a little more normal today.
I made Eggplant Lasagna, and my BIL and SIL are coming for dinner. They leave for Cali tomorrow to see their beautiful grand daughter.
Sorry, sometimes we just need some REGULAR conversation.......or at least THIS caregiver does.
to forgive is divine , but vengeance is mine
alice cooper
picture ; fire breathing fanatic preacher pounding his podium . " ye must be borned AGAIIIIN !! "
what if all the theatrics were not present and we read it as BORN again , as in reincarnated to further advance the cause of justice on earth . there are people on this earth too d*mn wise to have picked it up in one lifetime . genetically the same person is reborn every few generations . nothing mystical about it , its genetics . youll be reborn to continue your career of mayhem or your career of good deeds . mayhem will keep landing you in prison . good deeds will pay back many times over ..
Dont get me started my fathers partner is there at my dads wake with her rosary beads hail marys to beat the band............i asked her on the last night would it be possible for US his children to have a quiet moment alone by his coffin? no problem she said? you can only imagine the saddest moment in your life to say goodbye knowing you may never see him again (sorry shaking writing this it still hurts like hell) we said what we wanted to say i kissed his forehead THEN that B*TCH barges in with a neighbour to see him OMG had to hold my bro as he was going to crack and thump her BUT we held our own with DIGNITY ( are now plotting revenge but thats another book!) Yeh shes a church every sunday hypo too THEN the priest didnt seem to know WHO we were so my sister made sure he knew and introduced us all and asked him if we could do something at the funeral?? ( i know we had to ask) he said you have to square that with his partner?? at the service we were not mentioned he said "then there is his other family who i dont really know so i cannot comment" WTF
Sorry to rant but dont get me going on these fckwits! Not only is my fathers partner going to get hers BUT im taking down the catholic church yeh dont fck with this family!
Ive tried to let it go really but i cant that was my dad and i couldnt even let him in go in peace who does that barges in when your about to say goodbye forever? then go and PRAY! i dont think so!
Shes toast!
ye shall know them by their works
beating their breasts and crying aloud in high places
having a form of godliness but denying the power therin .....
i could go on but its all moot . im too busy trying to figure out how to get into that 50 ish looking , in the process of a divorce , dental hygienists pants .
god would want that for us ..
i have two sisters . one has cared for a demented elder thru years of heartache and misery . the other pretty much eats chicken and pie with the church people and quotes scripture like a freakin popcorn machine . the latter one hasnt a clue imo ..
dont get me wrong -- wonderful people in the churches , then a majority of self deluded mental midgets ..
Do you know my sister is a born again christian??? wont see her sick mum as she has issues with her? yep shell go to h*ll and back! but she reckons shes going to be alright in the next life and we are all stuffed? oooh shaking in my boots!! if i didnt visit my mum in 4yrs and never gave a toss about her id be pooing my pants by now if i were her!
treat others as youd like to be treated . theres my belief system in one sentence ..
that was pagan belief and common sensical long before it was biblical ..
"may you be in heaven an hour before the devil knows youre dead" oh i could go on and on but i wont bore yee!!
Any wonder we are all messed up over here? god fearing not really more SCARED SH*TLESS of the devil!!
never batted an eye during the procedure but im home now and i dont mind saying " son of a b*tch that hurt !!
Mum made muffins?? ever seen a flat muffin? god love her!
Today's dinner - we had only 2 slices of luncheon meat. One for sis, one for me. Since that's not enough food for dinner, I took one of dad's hard boiled egg (he eats daily one egg for breakfast), some leftover brocolli, leftover corn, a slice or 2 of avocado and one Mezzetta yellow chili pepper with rice. It was filling enough. If I still get hungry, I can always eat oatmeal.
Maybe if the food was good she would go in again?
You wont know yourself next week it will be hard but you get to be a daughter again and sleep at night hopefully!!
I didnt think americans had cobbler but then i guess you have everything european as so many emigrated there!
You would love beef stew and dumplings then its a suet topping light and fluffy!! with beef stew underneath and carrots but a real comfort winter food!!
hope everybody is having a pleasant weekend . i like to work on the weekends so i feel justified in taking a couple or three days off during the week ..
William Henry Hoover (no relation) founded what became a huge floor-care equipment company. He did not invent the equipment, but he bought the patent. In the US, even people whose equipment was made by the Hoover company "vacuum" with the equipment, we do not "hoover" with it. :)
that term caused a little tingle in my groin this morning . since your already hoovering over here in my corner -- eh . theres something wrong with my head .
we vaccum the floors here in the usa ..