I was at my 5 year old grandson's soccer game today.
My daughter, who couldn't be there at the start, mentioned that a mutual friend thought that it was so wonderful that I was going.
He shared that HIS mother had NEVER attended any of his 14 year old son's athletic events.
"She says it's not quality time, she doesn't get to talk to him".
This strikes me as the very definition of NPD.
I think this could be useful to other posters.