It's very difficult to see a loved one decline, and hard to imagine being without them. I got some relief after visitng the potential final resting place at a local funeral home, and made arrangements for both of us. All my questions were answered and I felt comfortable that the final arrangements were in good hands. That visit help me accept the inevitable . . . a very important step in living with a loved one fading away. Now I can concentrate on living and loving the best way I can. So what if I have to answer the same question 50 times. That's better than not having any questions at all, and I plan to make the most of any time left. All te best to everyone..
"the other day in the cafeterial a fellow ahead of me decided if he should get the fries or not...he decided to get them...I said heck life is short get them, you might as well eat now, cause you won't eat but mush when your old. He said he did take care of his dying mother a year ago...but yet my concept was lost on him...hmmm. I am ordering fries when I want them..not all the time mind you...but I am not going to deny myself...because why...because LIFE IS SHORT"