Visiting my mom.
15 years ago my mother was in a senior living and there was an activities director. She seemed very nice and I friended here. I was told she was telling residents very personal information about herself which to me was embarrassing.
My mom left and went to another facility and she followed her visiting her and bringing her a gift and sending her cards. This has been going on for 15 years.
Is my mom is 99 and she is in a personal care home and in very good health, mentally and physically.
One day this woman told my mom she was going on a trip and sleeping in her car and has a gun.
I emailed her and told her you do not tell 99 year old woman stories like that. Please call me when you want to visit my mother.
Yesterday she showed up, brought my mother presents. The day before my mom had stomach problems and I ran back and bringing her meds . She was tired!
I again told her in an email, please call me before you visit my mother. She wrote me a very nasty letter. Is it so wrong that I Am her to call before she comes?
She told me my mother said to come and not listen to me and my insecurity and on and on and on.
I told the caretakers a long time ago that she should not barge in but call first. So I will write a note and tell the facility again.
Thanks, just frustrated !