Unruly adult stepchildren.
My husband has been sick for over six years now. Now that he is on his deathbed I'm having issues with my adult stepchildren. In the past six months my step son who is 45 years of age has continuously called my phone text me and also went on my Facebook page and insulted me. You see me and my husband have been together for about 20 years now. He has never had a good relationship with his son. When I first met my husband his son took advantage of him in every way possible. He has continuously borrowed money off of my husband. He has never paid him a dime back. He is over $30,000 in debt with my husband. He's also had his father cosigned for him a car which he never paid back. He even let the insurance lapse so the company had to apply it to the loan. And this time there was also several parking tickets placed upon the car. These tickets whenever paid so there was a warrant placed out for my husband's arrest. All in this time my step son has continuously blame my husband for everything that he is done. So after all this we had not had contact with his son in over 18 years. Now that his father is dying he's decided to contact me and wishes to get his father's affairs in order. He's gone to the extent of cussing me out and saying that I'm only after his father for his pension. See the irony of this whole thing is is that I work I provide for me and my husband Who has been sick now for over six years. The house that we live in belongs to me. I purchased it on my own with my own money. So now I think this issue is that his son is looking for a Another free handout . I I am so tired of dealing with this person. He is a stranger to me he's been nothing but rude and cruel to me since I first met him. What gives him the right to think that he is going to come into my home and assess what is mine.