Thank you for your help and replies.
My aunt is a U.S. citizen and is anxious for us to go and see her. Our cousins would have see our aunt 3 to 4 times a year and as we live in england we would talk on phone and write regularly. It's just the total exclusion by our cousins. health proxy is a professor of medicine and he seems to make all the decisions and my aunt thinks this residence is short term.n I feel she has been taken out of everything she knew and people she knew. She never trusted too many people as my father was sent to England at 8 years of age and she was 5 years of age. We want what is best for our aunt and lies are not good thank you all.