Having my mother come stay with me is very hard, but I have to take care of her. she is the one that took care of me and never gave up on me when I was young and stupid. No way could I put her in a nursing home. Only as a last last option. Besides god took me that it is my job to take care of her. My husband said since my mother has been with me a my home, I have aged. What am I to do. Only my best. My mother eye sight is not good her hearing is not good, I am working on both of these things to make it better for her, except for her sight. She has collis where she has no control over her poop. SO I am very tried of cleaning poop. All I have to say I am bless to have my mother at age 87. I love her dearly. she has been the best mom that god could have given me. So now it is my turn to show my appreciation. Keep me and my mom in your prays.