I have been taking care of mom and dad until he died years ago. No one ever came to help me. Now that mom has been in a home for a few months they are all of a sudden concerned that she has problems. They say she is over medicated and the like. Mom is almost 86 and has been tired for years. They don't know this because they never came around. They say they are very busy and mom upsets them. Mom has her days and nights mixed up so she is sleeping when the one sister comes to visit. She thinks she should talk to the nurses and let them see that she is paying attention. Oh my. How should I handle this. They never have any dealings with me unless it's to make trouble.