My sister and I are POA's for my Mom but we are all at war.
My father passed away in November. I was his confidant and advisor. We were very tight and he relied on me and only me to read and complete all documentation for him. Although he loved all his 6 kids, he felt they were incompetent. When he passed away I found out that my father had registered for various insurance policies and did not assign a beneficiary, not even my mother. My siblings except for 2 all felt I should be the estate administrator for my dad, since he also did not leave a will. It was also determined that my sister would be my mother's POA since my mother would be living with her. Some of my siblings including myself felt their needed to be 2 POA'S because my sister was easily manipulated and very disorganized. I was appointed as the 2nd POA. My mother has been living with my sister in Philadelphia since December and I live in South Carolina. All of my siblings have been fighting since my father's death to the point where they have been manipulating my mother and my sister where she is living. My mother and I have never been close and now she refuses to speak with me. My demonic idiot x siblings are trying to take control of my mom's inheritance. So far they have hired an attorney at my mothers expense she's not very bright either to try and overturn the poa. And the exec admin rights as well. All the documents were prepared in Florida where they resided. My sister who shares poa with me is making financial decisions without getting my approval
My mother says she knows what's going on but she has developed dementia and is confused. We all advised my sister that she can get in trouble, but she is not listening. They have opened a secret bank account and have spent thousands of dollars in one month and my mother said is for clothes and food, however a check for almost $6000 was written for one of her demon children. No one will speak to me but the siblings that are trying to protect my mother's assets. I'm sitting back waiting til it blows up in their faces, but I know I need to do something before it's too late. I'm the one who researched everything regarding finances and did all the work, now they Want to clean my mother out and then toss her aside. Please advise.