it is in our DNA to do this! not everyone can, so unfair and still hurts!
Rather than dwell on the abandonment....
We have to think of ourselves as the gifted ones, WE possess a special quality few can get close to having!
I, all too well, know easier said than done!!! Just a different way to look at it maybe!!!
I sure know I am no Mariah Carey, Elvis, etc....and could not become one, if my or my parents life depended on it!!