I finally learned to say "NO" to Caregiving.
I have read all the loving and caring notes written to me, and to tell you...most fit very well into what I need or should do for myself. Ao now I have planned a mini vacation, 3 days, in Arkansas with one of my sons and his fiancee. They are giving me my first grandson, I have a stepgrandson who is six and I love him so much, but this will be the first born into the family. The baby is due in December so they want me to drive down to their house then they are going to take me to meet Jessica's mom and dad in Eureka Springs. So I just decided to ask one of my sons who lives nearby to care for mom for the weekend, I'm gonna rent a little car, and just take off. Wow, I really am gonna do it. Thanks for the great advice...and keep it coming!!!!!! cwgrl see, some of us really do listen!! lol