I have written before about my Narcissistic mom and her manipulation. She is in Palliative care now at home. She is being taken care of by myself and a caregiver who has been with our family for years. I have had to cancel visits to my grandchildren who live out of state. Recently, mom called me and ask that I not travel because "she had a feeling". Again my trip is canceled. Spoke today to her about it and told her I will not be going. I also explained that I will be missing my grandchilds graduation for pre-school to kindergarten. "well you will have plenty of time to spend with them but not with me". Again, I fell for it.