I'm the primary caregiver for my 88y/o Mom who lives in a Independent Living facility She has a lot of medical issues that need to be supervised and followed up on a regular basis. This blog has already helped me so much. I too use the Serenity Prayer when I get resentful that my 2 siblings do very little with day/day care for my Mom. I have already gotten some good ideas from people on the blog and don't feel so alone. I am looking into a monthly support group in my area so I can connect with people that can relate to my feelings. Thanks everyone for your input.