My mom is now punishing my dad by picking out a headstone that is plain. No Artwork.
on this ...My Dad was an Artist &painted many Native American/Scenic scenes...I had thot I would be part of it a little &she is choosing it all by herself..and won't let me help with the budget on it or ways that i can save money on it..it hurts.I have to say to myself okay...this is how it is..and i won't argue with her&sharing my thoughts or feelings she becomes argumentative.
My Father was not plain man. He love Art&would want Us all when we visited their grave to see that..something pleasing. not empty, Plain..