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My family has been paying my cousin to take care of my grandmother 24-7 , she lives in the house with her. She has been getting paid 5,000 a month for doing this with the reverse mortgage we took out, We are going to have to put her in a home and now some people have told us we should have paid her taxes and ssn, and we had agreed she would take care of this like it was her own business. Should we have been paying these. We also had someone tell us that if we payed her and she claims her own taxes that we have to supply workmans compensation insurance. Should we have been doing this as well?

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I know the original questions is from almost 3 years ago, but if someone is an "independent contractor" it is up to the employee to pay their own quarterly estimated taxes. And for the employer to provide 1099's as to how much was paid as an income to that person.

Hospicevsfamily, please note that the vast majority of grown children are not paid to be caregivers unless the elder can pay from their own retirement fund. Usually this is our first rodeo where a paid caregiver normally has a lot of experience and is knowledgeable on such matters as dementia.
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My cousin pays caregivers for their 24/7 care but refuses to me for the same 24/7 care
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Sorry my question was,how much should I be paid ezch month,
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Gm gives me $800 a month,I am on call 24-7 I live next door,I do almost everything for her,2siblings who do nothing for her,she is very financial stable..
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I'm not a tax expert, but I believe the rule is that if you are paying someone more than $600 in a year, you're required to file a 1099 to the IRS at the end of each year reporting what you paid them that year. I am a freelance editor, and I work on a contract basis for all my clients, so no one "withholds" for my taxes, and no one pays workers' comp or into Social Security for me, etc. I have to do all that myself ... but everyone who pays me in a year does file a 1099 with the government saying what they paid me, and the IRS gets a little ruffled if what I report doesn't match what those 1099s total (which happened one year when one of my clients did the math wrong, then filed a corrected 1099, and the IRS regarded it as "additional" income rather than a corrected form).

This being said, Jeannegibbs' "bigger picture" question is a good one. For all of you who think there is any chance you may need to apply for Medicaid down the road on behalf of a loved one, it is essential that your loved one (or, more likely, you, on his/her behalf) keep METICULOUS financial records to justify payments (not gifts) from your loved one to any family member.

I'm not an elder law attorney, and I agree that it would be a good idea to consult one ... but in terms of keeping records, common sense suggests that it would be wise to include the following:

- receipts for anything you bought for your loved one that they reimbursed you for;

- bank statements (in the case of a paid caregiver, showing regular, fixed payments);

- cashed checks or copies of same (preferably with the reason for those payments written on the memo line);

- your personal tax returns and/or a copy of the 1099s you've filed showing that you reported the money paid as income to the recipient (preferably at the end of each year that services/payment occurred, not all at once in a bunch just before applying for Medicaid);

- a written account of what all money paid to a family member was used for (i.e., "live-in caregiving service for grandma"); and

- possibly even a signed contract/agreement between you and the family member being paid laying out your agreement as to what services he/she will be providing and how he/she will be remunerated for those services.

I'd also anticipate that the government might want to review the tax returns of the paid family member to ensure that he/she reported the money paid as "income," and possibly even that he/she listed his/her professional occupation (or one of them) as "caregiver."

Basically, be very sure AS YOU GO that you are doing everything you can to distinguish "gifts" from either payment for services or repayment of monies expended on your loved one's behalf (with the understanding that these would be repaid). Even then, I don't know how Medicaid will view such expenditures ... but protect yourself and your loved one as best you can; don't assume you can just "explain" later with no documentation.
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Did this come up now because you are wanting to apply for Medicaid, and don't want the payments to cousin to be considered "gifts"?

I think that seeing an attorney who specializes in Elder Law would be a good bet at this point.
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No, you or someone is paying your cousin from your GM's account, you or whoever handle GM's tax should issued 1099-MIS for end of the year. so your cousin pays her owen tax herself. In case she get injured in GM's house, home owner's insurance would take care of it, but safe side have a written contract with cousin.
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