My significant other just had a Hemorrhagic stroke we have been together for 3 years and living together for 6 months. We were living as partners husband and wife & took care of thing by dividing them up 50-50. Now the family has stepped in and told me I am not family and I have no say in the bills or home mortgage or what goes on in the house. Her 24 year old son has been living with her for 7 months and he is rude verbally abuses his mother and makes her support him and well as other family members. He does go to college for about 20 hours a week. He expects for us to cook, clean, and do whatever else he needs. Now the my parnter is coming home soon I have to thought of making the son get a job and start paying for his own stuff instead of making his mother, but the family disagrees with me so they are going to use whatever they can to pay for his schooling. I beleive this is finaccial abuse Is there anywhere I can go to get advice about this matter?