I was telling the nurse that mom had a good night last night, she only woke up every two hours :) and she just gave me a looong look. I hardly even flinch any more when dealing with her incontinence and toileting issues. The newest one is calling my name over and over, that's been going on for a few weeks. It still gets on my nerves but I'm adapting. What changes have been hardest for you all to adapt to?