I am a young mother, & I want to go out with my children!( btw-son has Aspergers,daughter has Tuberous Sclerosis) They need to have a somewhat normal childhood! Want to take them to Schlitterbaum/Moody Gardens etc. But I am afraid to leave my elderly mom at home for fear she may not eat, or fall etc... so we either do not go or I usually will take mom because I know shell love it but its really difficult to places with an elderly w/walker, and a child with aspergers then my daughter who has to pee alot or has pain or drs, say to watch her for seizures! I need my older sister who is btw 53 to help me but she is self absorbed and always makes excuses.our dad just passed away and I would think that she'd be wanting to be closer to our mom especially now. I dont really like my sister that much rt now! i love her because blood says I have to. But how can she ignore mom and make her cry because of it, thats just mean and selfish. I can barely SOMETIMES as a favor to me get her to pick up moms medicines from Walgreens. I need to vent quite often as this helps me to cope! thanks!