I live on our family farm where I have a lot and have built a house. I have my animals on the other portion of the farm that she owns. It's very complicated how the farm is split up. She would never give my sister and myself our inheritance before she passes, because she think we would never go see her. Which is probably true because she's awful! I've tried distancing myself, trying to not let her get me upset. That just came back to bite me too. My sister keeps saying that I just need to listen and not get upset. No matter what I do it just feeds the fire. She's always been worse to me than my sister. I'm 57 years old and just want to throw my hands up, sell my house, change my phone number and forget her. I don't want to sell my house because I've lived there 35 years. I've worked hard for what I have. I just can't take it any more.