Help! Mum screams when in pain, does not get her way, or wants something now!
Mum was misdiagnosed with Parkinsons desease 25yrs ago , shes 78 yrs old, dad passed 6 yrs ago, mum now has parkinsonion symptoms caused by the parkinsons meds of 25 yrs.
There are serious side effects! I changed her doctors of 20 yrs but its too late now cause meds do not work ,shes too stiff, her motor skills bad, she has chronic pain from parkinsons stiffness, no more dopamine produced in her head , no enzymes produced ! She has chronic pain, she has bulging discs, she feels pins & needles throughout her body, she never sleeps, her body she claims feels heavy like mountains, she cannot walk 95% , she has depression , she cries 24/7, i recenty did drug rehab for her at home to help stop her self medication! For 2 months, the hospital did the same for an additional month recently! I stopped wirk 9 mnths ago to her her cause she never would have managed in a psych Ward cause shes too old & she would have died in an old peoples home which she hates! My 3 syblings since her medical degeneration ! Doctors , old doctors did not help her cause its easier to sterio type her cause of their misdiagnosis!
New doctors , 2-3 of each recommended she stop parkinsons drugs but its too late now cause the parkinsons symptoms are bad! She has lazy leg syndrome! Her screaming has ensured everyones abandonment cause she has serious behavioural problems!
I am exhausted cause the ladt 6 yrs i have worked & liojed after all hervmefical needs 24/7! I have had zero sleep for 6 yrs but can no longer cope! Her situation ! Especially her screaming of pain and self pity is horrible as her screams paralyses me literally!
She also hyperactive and demands attention 24/7 or else she does her worst!!! We argue cause she provokes me 24/7 & never stops screaming!!
Its been 6 yrs of a nite mare & i have nothing to hive her anymore
She always talks about her pain& sympyoms 24/7 . She refuses yo be kind yo me!
Her bad stories are pathetic
She lives with me! Shes negative 24/7 & refuses to stop!
I tell her 2 tell her doctors!not me
Her attention seeking is out of control!!!
Shes unbearable and never listens!
Shes incontinent and drinks water 24/7 cause of the parkinsons& dry mouth!
She refuses to ho into respite! Shes high care but recently i managed yo get hime respite 1.5 hrs daily but cause ofvdimentia shes entitled to get 15 wkly but its the impossible task eith the human services! DSS!!
No one person wants mum csuse dhe has parkinsons & behavioursl issues!!
I am estranged from my siblings cause of mum!!
My syblings tefuse to take mum or visit her!'
Mum thinks its all my fault!!
Mum always distracted and cannot stop talking 24/7
New docs take tgeir time for 3-5 yrs and matter is out of control!
Mum has said to her sister ' my sister bad things about me sk ggrn they became abusive twards me physically & verbally , thats my ither sister & mums sister but they refuse to help mum & use me as a scape goat & blame me for everything which is mental!
My sister & mums sister have depression & have hit me thinking there was a conspiracy with me & the hospitals & doctors i was taking mum & they kept on taking mum out of hospital & dumping her here ! Now that my sister took mums money , what was left of it , she now after 5 years years abandons mum altogether , not she ever helped but now that she took mums last dollar & they , mums sister & my sister have bashed me and spat at me & verbally abused me they do not even talk to mum on the phone!
Mums depression 24/7 & her crying is out of control but doctors refuse to do anything about it!
Mum is difficult & does what she wants 24/7. Now & in the last 6 months since mums rehab she csn piss & shit where she likes & denies it & ? Not sure whats happening but i can tell you cause of mums complex medical hisyory no one wants her! And frankly sometimes its understandable cause of her stubborn ways!
I have told everyone everything regarding my hime situation & nothing!!!!!
Mum also has sever Alzeimes dementia patkindons!!! Arthritis rhuematism !! But the worst is her non stop crying screaming , her needy ways are suffocating