Mrs Lincoln! You too?!?!?! (Out of control drama no jutsu!)
Found a chapter on Mary Todd Lincoln's antics in Dale Carnegie's book "The Unknown Lincoln" - Dale Carnegie is the guy who started the Dale Carnegie Course and was a fan of Abraham Lincoln and researched his own book.
The chapter she wrote is EXACTLY how my Mom behaves (and had behaved for years) - it's SCARY!
It makes me feel a WHOLE LOT BETTER just knowing Abe, his staff, cabinet and generals were afraid of Mrs. Lincoln and didn't know what to do with her either!
(The book is $5 bucks on Amazon Kindle)