Willing to help mother-in-law get into nursing facility, already found skilled nursing home eligible by the VNA. She refuses.
She was never considered a tenant but was informed in August by her son in law that she must be out by December 1. She is 94 years old and he has been doing what he can but she retaliates constantly by yelling at him due to the upcoming sale of the property. I am also worried that if she does not cooperate with the application for nursing home, and is not out, who will be responsible for her. She has always given both her daughter in laws a hard time and has been down right nasty with us on various occasions and now she is angry that neither of us will take her in. My sister in law is 76 and caring for her husband who has just had his third vascular by pass surgery. Please let me stress, her moving in with either of son's is not an option. I am just worried as to who is responsible for her and how will my brother in law get her out of the house once it is sold. This is a horrible situation and I just want it to go away.