MIL always first.
My mil after 3 years of living alone fell and broke her hip. This comes to no surprise to me since I know she's been falling and cognitively going downhill for years. My husband and his 3 sisters don't care or listen to a thing I say. They try to cover up her problems and refuse to get the help she needs. We just moved away from where she is just a month ago. We had our house for sale for many months so she's had time to face the truth. I have a son and a toddler. She nor any of his family came to see them or help out. My husband worked hours away so during the week I was by myself doing everything I could. I worked hard for months selling two of our houses in order to buy the house we've only been in for a month. My family will no longer talk to me because they can't stand my husband anymore. They were the only family we had that ever helped us any way they could. His family. Forget it. Our new house still needs to be sorted out. It's not even child proofed. My husband has left me to stay with his mom at the hospital. All his other siblings children are grown and some live closer to her. He returned last night sensing I was upset to do nothing but yell and blame me for being his only problem in his life. On our wedding night (that was paid for by my parents) we spent the night sitting outside her hotel room door because she was threatening to leave because of other guests at the hotel. I'm 11 years younger than my husband and married way too young. So I'm in a new place with no friends or family with a spouse who cares nothing for me.