She wants to move back to where she had her "glory days" and asked one of the caregivers to move with her. I can't get Mom to understand (I know...fighting a losing battle) that if she did move that far away, and bought a house, she would have enough money for about 1 year before she would be out of money and have to go to a nursing home. I would get to see her about once a year if that.
She is never satisfied with what she has; a nice home, people who love her, etc. She also has mentioned moving to Oregon and CA. Told me she doesn't want to die where she is now. Sorry mom but I can't help you.