Since or if you placed your elderly loved one in ALS or a nursing home. did you have to contend with opposition from meddling relatives such as a niece, cousin. etc. I just had to confront my mothers niece who opposes me putting my mother in ASL. She lives in another town so I confronted by phone. I told her off in uncertain terms and let her know that she the niece and the daughter and she could not override by putting ideas into my mothers head. I threaten to bar her from visiting as well as intercepting her letters. This so called "niece" has never done much for my mother and now she wants to put on the judgemental act.