Dad is in the hospital right now and yesterday I asked my brother if he could call my other brother, and between the two of them, figureout if one of them would spend the night with dad. I am exhausted after spending a long time up there. Well, I am sure you can guess what the result of that request was. A big fat NO!!! So now I am finally home, 7:00 am, since my sister and husband are with dad now. I just left my brother a message telling him that I will no longer ask him for anything (since this is my first and last request for help) since it seems to be an inconvenience for him and I am not very happy at all......and I dont feel bad at all.